To understand better how counselling works, it’s worth thinking
about what it is not. It’s not the same as going to the doctor
or another ‘expert’ where you expect to be advised, instructed,
interpreted or directed. Our relationship will be some what different
from this. Between us the power will be more equally shared. You will
be in charge of the agenda. I will do my best to understand what you
want to achieve, and help you to achieve it.
What can you expect when you first attend a counselling
session?
To be offered a safe, non-judgemental place in which to explore and
understand your grief/distress/pain/loneliness. My role will be to facilitate
your journey.
Lots of clients come to counselling asking questions such as: why do
I seem to be the only one struggling with life/relationships/children/work?
Who am I? Where am I going? What is my life about? I feel lost; I feel
out of step with the rest of the world.
To enable me to help you answer or understand those questions I will
draw on my ten years experience and training in Psycho-dynamic Counselling,
Gestalt Counselling, Person-centred Counselling, Cognitive Behavioural
Therapy and Creative Art Therapy. My interest is in helping you understand
yourself and to explore how your life can be as satisfying and happy
as possible. Creating and establishing a safe therapeutic relationship
offering empathy and compassion. I see myself as a facilitator of increased
awareness, participating as an honoured guest on my clients personal
journeys and offering myself from time to time as a multi-dimensional
mirror into which they may choose to look as they begin to learn that
I will not judge or threaten but will genuinely care and accept all
they may choose to bring.